The thing I am most scared to do is to talk to my 85 year old aunt. During our conversations she talks about sexual abuse that occurred more than 50 years ago in our family as if it is consensual. I find this sodisturbing that I don’t call her for fear of being triggered and […]

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The thing I complain about most is not being understood and folks making assumptions about me rather than asking me directly. Don’t put this baby in a box.

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Two things

“There are two things over which you have complete dominion, authority, and control—your mind and your mouth “ —Molefi Asante born 1942

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