What tattoo do you want and where would you put it? I have all the tattoos I want and I have a low tolerance for pain. “Mom” and “Dad” on each hand “Kiki” and the ram symbol for Aries on one forearm and my initial and the first initial of two of my children on […]

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What is one word that describes you? Blesbian.

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What was the best compliment you’ve received? “You sound like a white man.” This was over the phone and I have heard this on countless occasions in my 68 years. I am in fact a Black woman. Yes, racist and sexist, the people meant it as a compliment.

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You’re going on a cross-country trip. Airplane, train, bus, car, or bike? Train. Amtrak travel is the best. You get to see so much, have wi fi and food available and get to ride the rails.

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Who is the most confident person you know? The definition of confident is “to feel sure of oneself, one’s abilities, or the correctness of one’s actions or judgments”. I will be 68 on 4/3/2025 and I am proud to say that I am the most confident person I know. I am completely sure of myself, […]

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What strategies do you use to cope with negative feelings? Gratitude, affirmations, gratitude journal. Steeped in gratitude.

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What activities do you lose yourself in? Only one, reading, nonfiction or fiction I get totally transported for the time I am reading or listening to an audiobook.

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What movies or TV series have you watched more than 5 times? Girlfriends, A Different World, Friends, The Mary Tyler Moore Show, Frazier, Act Your Age, and The Twilight Zone. Yes, I am Boomer, Blesbian, and Blerd.

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Are you superstitious? Not consciously. I don’t believe when I have broken a mirror I have 7 years bad luck. However I do throw salt over my left shoulder when I spill it. No fear of the number 13 or Friday the 13th or black cats.

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Which animal would you compare yourself to and why? An elephant, because they allegedly never forget.

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